Accepting differences: A Lesson in Intersubjectivity
Intersubjectivity refers to the psychological relation between or among human beings and a range of human interactions. It may mean anything that is shared by two or more subjects. When used to refer to agreement, intersubjectivity is said to be present among people if they agree on a given set of meanings or definition of the situation.
Intersubjectivity requires accepting differences and not imposing on others. No intersubjectivity is possible without the recognition and acceptance of our differences.
Accepting our differences may open the doors to many opportunities, such as beneficial formal agreements, friendships, work prospects, or a broader understanding of the world and this helps us to progress and mature.
Accepting differences and not imposing on others may require the following:
1. Show respect.
If we treat others with the same degree of respect we would like to be treated ourselves, then it would not be hard to accept them for what they are.
2. Practice tolerance.
Tolerance is a key to move towards accepting other people’s opinions and respecting our differences. By definition, tolerance is the ability or willingness to tolerate the presence of opinions or attitude that we dislike or disagree with.
3. Avoid being judgmental.
Having or displaying an overly critical point of view will not help in accepting our differences. We should embrace our differences, not be disapproving about them.
4. Do not “judge a book by its cover.”
We ought not to judge anyone on our first impression which is usually about how he or she looks. Instead of pre-judging someone on appearances alone, it is far better to take the time to get to know him within.
5. Be willing to listen.
To listen to other’s opinions does not necessarily mean to deviate from our own conviction. For our own good, entertaining a different opinion may even make us think deeper and improve our perspective on things.
Intersubjectivity would lead to a far more peaceful and understanding world with mature and developed inhabitants.
Also Check Out: From Socrates to Mill: An Analysis of Prominent Ethical Theories, also by author Jensen DG. Mañebog
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